Wednesday, July 11, 2012

You Are What You Wear

The other day at work, I was wearing this ruffled skirted dress.



With a seersucker blazer over it.

And one of my co-workers said to me, "I wish I was young enough to pull off clothes like that, still."

And I said, "Well, I am actually not *that* young."

And I dropped the bomb.

I'm 30.

And she was incredulous.

"I thought you were just 23! Twenty-four at the most!" she said.

And then I didn't know whether to be flattered (who doesn't want to look younger?) or offended, because I always wonder if people assuming that I am younger than I am in a professional setting means that I somehow behave unprofessionally.

I know you can't really offer me any insight on this, seeing as we don't work together (though wouldn't that be fun?!?) but I think we can all agree that our clothes do send a message. And maybe the message my clothes send is, "I'm a recently graduated college student." But I'm not giving up that dress, so I guess I'll just have to embrace it.

If you are interested in what your favorite clothes say about you, check this out. Most of it rings pretty true to me.

Stripes = practical? Makes sense.



Maxi skirt = easygoing. I'll buy that.



Bright colors = energetic. Sure!



But what do you think? Do you dress for your mood or persionality? Which look, or combination of looks, is your favorite? And what do you think it says about you?

3 comments:

Anna Parikka said...

I'm having the same problem: I'm 32, the other day I was asked for an id to a bar where the age limit was 20... Everyone tells me to be happy about it, but I don't know... it also means that people treat you like you don't understand much and also: I'm not interested in 22-year-old boys who come to hit on me... So, I'd rather look my age, but it's not just the clothes. Even if I wear a suit, I'm looking like a young girl wearing a suit...

Abagail Reid said...

I love striped shirts! If I could I would wear them everyday:)

hellolibbydear said...

I completely connect with this post-- I turn 30 in a month and definitely dress for my mood! I do think it's important to begin with a classic style and then meander from there...

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